A Sober Girls Guide Podcast

Sandra Vergara: Selling Sunset and Sobriety

Sandra Vergara, actress, luxury real estate agent, and newest face of Selling Sunset, shares about the moment she realized drinking was lowering her energy and blocking the life she was trying to grow into. Sandra opens up about her sobriety journey, her emotional patterns, and how discovering Kabbalah became the spiritual framework that helped her rebuild from the inside out.
We discuss:
• Emotional patterns Sandra uncovered once she stopped drinking• How Kabbalah supported her healing and self-awareness• Staying grounded in entertainment and real estate
 

Am I Drinking Too Much? How Do You Know It’s Time to Stop Drinking.

We explore the quiet signs your body, mind, and mood are giving you, the self-doubt that creeps in when others minimize your experience, and how to rebuild trust in your own intuition. From “gray-area drinking” to subtle burnout, this episode helps you tune out the noise and tune into yourself.
Coach Lisa and Coach Susan dive into how to recognize when alcohol is holding you back, even if you don’t “look like” you have a problem.
We cover:• The subtle signs your relationship with alcohol is no longer serving you• How to trust your intuition over outside opinions• Why self-doubt keeps you stuck• The difference between taking a break and giving up• How to protect your peace when others don’t understand
It’s not about rock bottom, it’s about realizing you deserve better.
 

How to Start Your Sober Girl Journey

In this empowering episode, discover essential techniques to overcome cravings, avoid boredom, and socialize confidently without alcohol.
Key Highlights:
Learn about the #1 mistake 99% of women make that keeps them returning to drinking.
One simple actionable step can curb your drinking before it even begins.
Explore the combination of strategies that hundreds of women have used to maximize their recovery and transform into their happiest, most successful selves.
"Sobriety is not about what you give up; it’s about what you gain."
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A Sober Girls Guide to Mom Guilt in Sobriety

Mom guilt is one of the biggest struggles women face when changing their relationship with alcohol. In this episode, I sit down with Coach Lisa from A Sober Girls Guide Membership to unpack how guilt shows up for moms in sobriety, and more importantly, how to overcome it.
Lisa shares her own experiences as a mom navigating sobriety and gives practical tools to help you release the shame, shift your mindset, and build confidence in your role as both a mother and a sober woman.
We cover:
Why mom guilt hits so hard in sobriety
How alcohol and guilt are connected for moms
The first steps to breaking free from shame and self-criticism
This conversation is both validating and empowering, reminding every mom out there that you are not alone and you are more than enough without alcohol.
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Jennifer Salzman: ADHD and Alcohol

Why do women with ADHD struggle to quit drinking? Jessica sits down with Jennifer, Rebel Without a Drink, to explore how understanding your brain changes everything about sobriety. If you’ve ever wondered why your brain won’t slow down, why you can’t “just have one,” or why quitting drinking feels like a full-time job, this episode is for you.
Together they explore:
How to know if you might have ADHD as a woman (and why it’s often missed)
Why ADHD brains crave relief and stimulation at the same time
The dopamine trap that makes alcohol feel like it “helps” (but actually burns you out)
How to calm your mind, regulate emotions, and build focus without drinking
ADHD-friendly tools, routines, and supplements that actually work
Why willpower isn’t the problem, energy is

Jennifer Salzman: ADHD and Alcohol

Why do women with ADHD struggle to quit drinking? Jessica sits down with Jennifer, Rebel Without a Drink, to explore how understanding your brain changes everything about sobriety. If you’ve ever wondered why your brain won’t slow down, why you can’t “just have one,” or why quitting drinking feels like a full-time job, this episode is for you.
Together they explore:
How to know if you might have ADHD as a woman (and why it’s often missed)
Why ADHD brains crave relief and stimulation at the same time
The dopamine trap that makes alcohol feel like it “helps” (but actually burns you out)
How to calm your mind, regulate emotions, and build focus without drinking
ADHD-friendly tools, routines, and supplements that actually work
Why willpower isn’t the problem, energy is
 

From Hangovers to Healing: How A Sober Girls Guide Was Born

In this deeply personal solo episode, I take you through the real, raw, and radically honest story of my 8-year journey without alcohol. From blackout nights in LA as the girl paid to party, to becoming the founder of A Sober Girl’s Guide, this episode is not a highlight reel. It’s the truth.
You'll find yourself in this story if you’re starting, starting over, or somewhere in the middle. And I promise: there’s light on the other side.
In this episode, I share:
The lie I believed about alcohol and identity
My personal rock bottom moment
What helped (and what didn’t) in early sobriety
How my body, brain, and life transformed
✨ If you’ve ever wondered if you can change your life without alcohol, this episode is for you.
DM me @asobergirlsguide on Instagram and let me know what part of the journey you're on.
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India Gants: Breaking Fre From Alcohol and Abussive Relationships

In this raw and inspiring episode, America’s Next Top Model winner India Gants opens up about her sober journey and her experience leaving a narcissistic, abusive relationship.
We talk about the striking similarities between alcohol dependency and toxic partners, how both can keep you stuck in self-doubt and fear,  and the freedom that comes from breaking those cycles.
India shares how sobriety gave her the clarity and confidence to trust herself again, recognize red flags, and build a healthier, happier life.
If you’ve ever struggled with alcohol, felt trapped in an unhealthy relationship, or wondered how the two can be connected, this conversation is a must-listen.
 

How to Have a Big, Badass Sober October and Kick-Start Your Sober Girl Journey

Kick-start your alcohol-free journey with a Big, Badass Sober Girl October!
Jessica shares what it really feels like to start. The nerves, the cravings, the awkward first weeks, and how that discomfort turns into confidence, energy, and self-trust.
Learn how to prepare, handle triggers, and celebrate your wins, plus get the details on our Sober October Challenge inside A Sober Girls Guide Membership, where the top participant wins an Epic Sober Girl Prize Pack:– Joi Wellness Advanced Panel Blood Test ($400)– Exact Nature CBD Bundle ($200+)– Prima Pave NA Sparkling Wine– A Sober Girl Necklace
Join the challenge and see how fun, empowering, and life-changing a sober month can be.

Nidhi Pandya: Real Wellness Made Simple

Today’s wellness industry has become way too extreme. Who really has time to keep up with the latest trends and overpriced gadgets just to relax?
In this episode, I sit down with Nidhi Pandya, third-generation Ayurvedic practitioner and creator of the Inner Climate Method. Together, we explore why the modern wellness world feels so complicated, overwhelming, and expensive, and how Ayurveda brings us back to simple time-tested practices that actually work.
Nidhi breaks down the core principles of Ayurvedic medicine and shows how reconnecting with your body’s natural rhythms can restore balance in digestion, energy, hormones, and emotional health. Instead of endless routines and costly tools, she shares practical daily routines that are accessible to anyone and easy to implement right away.
This episode is a refreshing reminder that true wellness does not have to be complicated. Ayurveda offers ancient wisdom for modern living that is simple, affordable, and deeply effective.